Hi i have a friend who i have just found out has very low self esteem and wonder how i can help him best. what advice do you have and i need to look after myself in the process know cos i have also struggled with this issue at times – that must be,, obviously, my bottom line
but i dont want to just give up now i know his “secret”
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Hello Kay
To support your friend – firstly you need to take care of yourself and ensure you are giving yourself time to learn and grow as a person. What do you like? Make a list of all the things that make you feel good. Allow yourself to let go and surrender to your contentment in thinking of the things you like. Allow yourself to let go of other people’s opinions and any negative self talk you may have. Wake up tomorrow and put your feet on the floor and thank the universe for the beautiful day ahead of you. These thoughts you hold at the beginning of the day will determine your mood and experiences throughout the day. Let your friend know you are there without judgement and that he is not alone. Life is a journey of experiences which when we encounter things that make us feel uncomfortable, I truly feel its a life lesson we need to learn otherise we never evolve and change in any way. If nothing changes then nothing changes. So begin your day tomorrow with a tiny step forward and begin a new life experience by making yourself a priority. I wish you well – wake up and feel good because you deserve it!
With love and light
Anna
Hi i have a friend who i have just found out has very low self esteem and wonder how i can help him best. what advice do you have and i need to look after myself in the process know cos i have also struggled with this issue at times – that must be,, obviously, my bottom line
but i dont want to just give up now i know his “secret”
what does i tmean when it says my message is awaiting moderation – is that an answer ?
kay
Awaiting moderation means a response won’t be posted on the website until it has been received and read by the website administrator. Basically the answer is yet to come.
Hello Kay
To support your friend – firstly you need to take care of yourself and ensure you are giving yourself time to learn and grow as a person. What do you like? Make a list of all the things that make you feel good. Allow yourself to let go and surrender to your contentment in thinking of the things you like. Allow yourself to let go of other people’s opinions and any negative self talk you may have. Wake up tomorrow and put your feet on the floor and thank the universe for the beautiful day ahead of you. These thoughts you hold at the beginning of the day will determine your mood and experiences throughout the day. Let your friend know you are there without judgement and that he is not alone. Life is a journey of experiences which when we encounter things that make us feel uncomfortable, I truly feel its a life lesson we need to learn otherise we never evolve and change in any way. If nothing changes then nothing changes. So begin your day tomorrow with a tiny step forward and begin a new life experience by making yourself a priority. I wish you well – wake up and feel good because you deserve it!
With love and light
Anna